I’M AFRAID OF DATING HER BECAUSE I AM STILL A VIRGIN AND SHE IS NO LONGER ONE.

Hi guys. Please am in love with a girl very much in love with her but we aren’t dating yet. She knows I like her a lot. I asked her a question that is sexy and very important in a normal boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. She said yes, that she was doing it before with her former boyfriend before they broke up. So me I was like I am still a virgin I don’t want to break my virginity yet. So am confused whether to date her or not. 

5 thoughts on “I’M AFRAID OF DATING HER BECAUSE I AM STILL A VIRGIN AND SHE IS NO LONGER ONE.

  1. If you really love her, stay with her and start teaching that SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, is valuable and respectable. Is not a recreational activity you just perform with any male that jumps into your way. With you being firm, she may learn to have self control. Pray for her and don’t just stop the relationship like that since you love her very much. God be with both of you.

  2. You love a girl so very much, and you want to back out because of what she said????
    Is it that you never loved her enough or what???
    What if she just said those things just to know your reactions cos we girls are guilty of this sometimes.

    My dear!!! Even if what she said was true, God might be using you to teach her the true meaning of love.

    If you back out, then it means you never really loved her like you claim.

  3. Be not afraid,
    Seize the opportunity to reconfigure her mind to understand that sex is not a proof of true love.
    Let her know that you love her, but no sex until marriage.

    She will be glad and appreciate you more than the past friends who took advantage of her ignorance.

  4. Talk to her about it first. If she feels having a boyfriend without having sex is unthinkable,then there is a problem somewhere. Even though the world is evolving into dating=sex, DATING DOES NOT MEAN YOU MUST HAVE SEX PLEASE.
    Its very nice that you know you love her and you want to keep your virginity. God bless you for that. Bring her to truly know Jesus and introduce her to the Holy Spirit. Always pray for her as you do this. My brother, help her to know that she can love someone truly and be patient till marriage. Since you said you truly love her, you should not allow her to perish in sin.
    You also have to be strong in faith too.
    May God help and direct you. Amen

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